Confidant or Confi-DON"TS

In life everyone has problems as we all know and sometimes we feel like we need someone to talk to. Every time you need to talk you don't run to a shrink or nothing like that, most of us go straight to our family and friends..which in most cases they are the ones that got you acting stupid and/or alone. They are the ones saying "man leave that chick alone" or "girl you don't need a nigga like that" or maybe they are the ones encouraging to go out and do some dumb shit. The thing is you may not need that nigga or that chick but In most cases you aren't the one who made that conscience decision they did and soon after they be back with the same person the had screwed them over or still single (just as they have been since you have know them) and you are going to bed alone or at the club trying to draw some attention with their single assess. Most friends and family don't understand when to give advice and when not to. It may seem like when some comes to talk to you that they want your advice when in fact did you ever think that they just wanted to TALK. The thing is that you may have given your opinion once already and you keep giving it, in turn making you pissed off because you have been saying the same thing to them and thy aren't listening. News flash people "SHUT THE FUCK UP", then you wouldn't be so damn mad when the come talk to you because you have realized that they are going to stop doin what they are doin when they are ready..hopefully. However, the friends aren't truly the blame because all they did was give the advice, you the one that took your ass out and acting on it like what they said was what you should have done. I guess the moral is all advice isn't good advice tho it may sound like it and learn who you can confide in and who you can't because the "gotcha gotcha" is they may be doin the same shit that they made you feel dumb about doin or not doin and you would never know!!!!

IF YOU GOT A TOPIC YOU WOULD LIKE TO POST EMAIL ME AT PHADE2BLAQUE83@YAHOO.COM OR HIT ME UP ON FACEBOOK!!!

The most deadly disease

You can probably come up with all types of diseases and sicknesses that could probably kill you and or do great damage to your well being but there is one that everybody looks over. When you catch this disease you think its the best thing in the world, the crazy thing is it makes you wanna tell everybody that you have it, it makes you laugh, smile and feel all good inside.....until you see what it can really do. It makes you sick, you loose your appetite, loose weight and some time your hair and it totally fucks up your mental. The funny thing is this can also be a sexually transmitted disease. At this point you might be asking yourself like "what the fuck is he talking about"..right? Well gang the shit is called "LOVE". Don't worry its curable in some cases but can be contagious. Now don't get me wrong it can be a good thing for most people, depending who you catch it from. Having the wrong person catch it from you can get you laying on the kitchen floor stanking, dead as a jaybird. I remember when i got diagnosed with that shit, the worst time of my life. I use to sit on the couch eating shortbread damn cookies all day listing to Dwele over and over again. After that I started to use protection to fight of the virus which was sticking to meaningless sex with no strings til i fucked around and caught it again. This time it lasted for a long time. What's crazy about that one was that I rejected it so many times and then I finally gave in. Eventually I saw what catching it from the wrong person can do, especially when they lie and cheat but I still did nothing to cure what I had. Then it went to its next stage, got my hope up thinking something great was bout to come of it and then receive a call a couple days later just to find out how they were cured, meanwhile I'm looking like a got damn clown trying to fight the disease myself and those symptoms can be horrible, it will have you doin some shit that will leave you looking like a Jack ass. Any way, I do know of a over the counter drug that can cure it temporarily and its called boose!!!! Bacardi 151 works the best. Make sure you don't overdose cause it will make you wanna leave somebody laying on the kitchen floor stankin...dead as a Jaybird.